relaxed 
This picture from the largest Muslim country in the world (Indonesia) is especially dedicated to the Dutch right wing politician Geert Wilders. He still thinks that woman wearing headscarfs is a sign that they are oppressed by the Islam.
I have never seen more emancipated, happy looking, openly flirting woman with headscarfs on. Like this encounter at the Sultan's Palace in Cirebon. This group of educated woman really wanted to be on the photograph with me, big man from Holland. Laying their arms around me, they were not the timid women that people think they are under Islam.
When Wilders will be convicted for discrimination (he is being prosecuted at the moment), maybe they should send him to Indonesia for a few weeks to see that the world is more complicated than in his mind...
They do send Moroccan boys denying the Holocaust to Auschwitz to learn some things, and that works too...